During these times of pandemic, many questions arise. So much time at home makes us question many things and it is something that happens to adults and children. The little ones are used to a movement routine that is disturbed by this long time at home. It is common that many questions arise in them and more when they see strange terms on television and the Internet.
Your son probably asked you already what is happening. You told him they had to stay home to be protected. But … Protected from what? The answer is simple. They must protect themselves from contracting COVID – 19. Your children are hearing about this but it is your job to make it as understandable as possible. Here are some tips!
- Find out what your child knows
Ask questions that are easy for the little one to understand. In older children, you can ask him questions like “What have you heard about the coronavirus?” or “What questions do you have about the coronavirus?” any easy way to get to know what information is on your mind about this disease. In addition, you can help them understand better in case the information they have is bad.
Let them feel they are in control. Children may want to spend time talking about all these strange things that are happening. It is normal. So let them guide you. Just as they may want a lot of information, they may not want any.
- Offer them Comfort and Honesty
Children must feel safe. Just give them the necessary information and avoid unnecessary details. Talk about the obvious. Because the stores are closed because you have to wear masks because you can’t go out as often as before … Things that have changed your daily life.
If the children ask a question that you have no answer to, just say that: I don’t know. The best thing is to tell them the truth but give them the assurance that you are giving them all the necessary information and that you are not hiding anything from them.
- Speak calmly and slowly
When you are going to have this important conversation do it in the right space. Speak very calmly and give a confident tone to everything you say, your child will notice if you are nervous if you don’t. Tell them that people who feel sick feel like a common cold or flu but they can get complicated and that’s what the news shows. Tell him about the local situation and what steps you are taking to be well.
- Take time to listen to their fears
If the conversation has occurred because your child is afraid, it is best to listen for a long time to the fears he has. This way, he will let off steam and will be willing to listen to what you have to say.
- Tell them that being afraid is normal but that you have your unconditional support
During these situations is when you should give your children the feeling of security and calm. Make them feel loved and you will see how before any concern they will approach you. It is a very good thing that will help sow harmony at home. These are times to make everyone feel loved.
The COVID – 19 Pandemic has changed everyone’s life during these months. We must take each of the precautions seriously and talk to the smallest of the house is part of this.